No offense, but it feels like someone took the money and ran Gosh, I hate to bite the hand that used to feed me but it’s clear either Medium has genuinely run out of money, or, like many companies, greed is killing it. Many have said it well, Medium used…

How many times would you press it? The current generation is being seduced and addicted by a virtual, digital world where their dreams always come true….really quickly….and painlessly. If watching short videos on TikTok brings you to near orgasm how many should you watch each day? A thousand? Ten thousand? …

How we feel is a balancing act between being in control and a willingness to surrender to the unknown Just yesterday I had a flashback of myself from 1999. I was 33 years old, sporting a 38-inch waist, and had recently agreed to pay my first wife half of my…

Now I can’t control anything, except my own behavior When I grew up it was perfectly normal to tell a little boy that he’d grow up to be a real man. A strong, fearless, head of household — King of his castle. The reinforcement of these gender role expectations began…

Or are you just sick of doing it with the same person? We’ve got to get to a point where we can love someone regardless of whether our sexual expectations are being met. Or not. Men and women often end up in frustratingly impossible psychological and emotional states, where, a…

It’s time to surrender — a purposefully provocative proposition… How dare we as a nation blame our teachers for the fact that many of our students are so hopelessly addicted to their screens — including smartphones, smartwatches, and other emerging internet-infused technologies — that they rebel — violently sometimes —…

You Are What You Eat… Nope, you are who you meet… I am continuously interested and excited by social, sexual, romantic, and plutonic relationships and how those whom we bring into our lives affect our state of mind, personalities, and future choices. Some say you are what you eat, but…

As we get older less so, with some important exceptions Adolescence Sex not only makes the world go round but is a vital part of how we live our lives. In fact, I’m sitting here in Starbucks and a lovely lady decided to sit at the table directly next to me—…

Winning at any cost Strong language alert! ___________________________ “You’re a fucking idiot,” “Fuck you!” That’s where we are politically in this country — well beyond reason, critical thinking, and mutual compromise; the electorate is just eating this drama up, hateful language, fighting words, and all. Can you even imagine a…