I beg you not to take this the wrong way, I swear I mean no offense, and loved reading this article. But you say in your comments that you'd rather have a cool guy who respects you, than a hot guy, yet every single example you gave of who you were interested in, was a hot guy. Is it possible most women care about the physical as much as men do, but don't want to feel like they're just another notch in a man's belt? Or do they want to feel that they're more special than all the other women who willingly sleep with these hot guys on the first date?