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If Women Want to Get Angry About a Hypocritical, Double Standard
The minute a woman gets a single wrinkle she’s sometimes perceived as old or less attractive, yet for men, it’s often a different story
Somehow I think this will end up being men’s fault.
In other words, if men weren’t so focused on a woman’s physical attractiveness they might not be as worried about always looking perfect.
If we men are going to be honest and truthful, we must admit that we are hyperfocused on a woman’s physical attractiveness.
We could be 102 years old and an attractive 28-year-old will turn our head.
I can’t get into a woman’s head, but many have told me they genuinely find a man between 35 and 60 just as attractive as a man between 18 and 30.
This may explain some of the double standard.
I understand it’s not as categorical as I’ve defined it. A great deal has to do with advertising, historical patriarchy, wealth, and sex.
Women have made tremendous progress, but the most powerful people in the world — economically and politically — continue to be men.
Put bluntly, it’s grotesquely unfair that women feel such pressure around their physical appearance: their skin, their body, their makeup, their clothing, and…