Very interesting thoughts. I am very intrigued by your assertion that most men are bad at sex. And that women are searching for someone who loves them equally and happens to be that rare gem who's good at sex. I wonder though, whether part of what makes a man (or woman) good at sex is the fantasy in our minds we create about the person were about to have sex with. Why do average men (and women) who win the lottery suddenly become more attractive (and presumably more sexually satisfying) simply because they've become suddenly wealthy? Is wealth itself an aphrodisiac?